Today I want to bring to everyone’s attention a great resource for all of you aspiring to get your dating life in control. It’s the official Nick Hoss Reading List and it’s entirely FREE if you sign up soon. Let’s just go over what this ebook includes:

• An easy-to-use link system. You don’t have to go scouring the ends of the internet to find the post Nick is talking about, it’s all inside.
• Over 60+ Instructor classic write-ups and blog posts, which includes comments by Nick Hoss himself about how and where you can apply the lessons taught in these posts.
• A great balance between posts involving outer game and inner game. Remember, you can’t have one without the other. It’s a yin-yang relationship that’s highlighted throughout the list.
• A few “old school” articles that are still relevant to the dating
• Two new, upcoming Interview Series topics are revealed (which will especially excite my day gamers reading this).
• An entire section devoted to gathering all the free videos and audios out there in the internet so you can have them all in one centralized locations (Such as Braddock’s and Mr. M’s “10 Game Audio,” “Advanced Day Game – Audio,” “Appearance and Wealth,” and much, much more).
• A mini-catalog of all the Love Systems products (Including a mini-review for each of them by Hoss)
• Section of mainstream resources which includes movies and books that are tangental to game but guaranteed to give you some “ah-ha” moments.

Nick Hoss has really gone out of his way to bring all this material into one central location, but I think the greatest attribute of this list is that it contains content that will improve all beginners, intermediate, and advanced guys alike. Anyways it’s a free resource, check it out on Nick Hoss’ day game blog, and leave a comment or a review below!

Get the NICK HOSS READING LIST

www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/143447-project-rockstar-2011-collective-journals.html

As instructors, the experience has been amazing. First, the participants (“Rockstars”) have gotten so good in such a short amount of time it’s really fun to witness and be a part of. Second, between the large instructor base that’s here, this project has turned into a breeding ground some deep innovative inroads in dating technology. Venture and I have uncovered some really powerful shit and are excited to be teaching the new material at our upcoming bootcamps. I guarantee it is going to change things.

For those of you that are new to Project Rockstar, feel free to read more about it here: www.projectrockstarblog.com

As part of this year’s Project Rockstar, Love Systems is running a very unique 10-day bootcamp to coincide with the final 10 days of the program. The idea came about when Venture and I saw the growth the guys were going through from having been exposed to intense extended continuous game training, and realized that contiguous exposure really compounds results. That, and we really wanted to consolidate the most cutting edge Love Systems technologies, and to teach it all in one comprehensive program. It’s something we’ve talked about amongst the instructor team for a while now, but for the first time it’s actually happening.

Given the unique nature of this program, a website has been specifically setup to provide the details of everything the bootcamp will include: www.10-day-pua.com

But in essence, for the last 10-days of Project Rockstar 2011, bootcamp students will live, breathe and completely immerse themselves in game with the instructor team and the Rockstar participants. Day game and seminars in the day, night game in clubs and bars at night. For 10 days straight. All this in Sweden… where the girls are unbelievable hot.

The hand-selected instructor team will include:

• Mr M – Rockstar founder, truly needs no introduction
• Jeremy Soul – world’s #1 Day Game expert
• Bullet – uses Love Systems at the age of 50 to pick up gorgeous women
• Mark V – so good, he literally pulls 9s and 10s, including a Playboy model, despite having only one arm  (Love Systems > an unnecessary second arm)
• Nick Hoss – day game, college game, street game
• HiRoller – high-end club expertise
• Farmer – day game specialist
• And of course ourselves, Sterling and Venture, picked as lead 2011 Project Rockstar instructors

And the curriculum includes:

• An extended Comprehensive Bootcamp (taught by full instructor team)
• Social Circle Mastery (led by Mr. M)
• Inner Game (led by Mr. M)
• Day Game (led by Soul)
• Same Night Lays (led by Venture)

The program is priced at $7,997 (in parts, it is worth well over $12,000…). To answer any questions you may have, we are hosting a conference call on July 14 to give as much detail about the program as we can, and to explain why we are so excited about it.

www.lovesystems.com/10-day-pua-call

To discuss pricing further, feel free to call or e-mail Jeremy at the office at:

Jeremy Lubin

Programs Manager

(800) 680-0821 (x110) / (323) 836-0150 (x110)

Jeremy@lovesystems.com

This shit will change your life. Hope to see you there.
- Sterling & Venture

Here’s one I got a little while ago from a New York client. Note at the end how he says a friend of his got married to a wonderful woman through empowering himself with the techniques that Love Systems teaches.

I try to maintain as many personal friendships as I can with clients. This year, I’ll go to my second wedding from an ex-client, and I certainly know of a few other guys who have stayed in touch with me about finally getting married to someone special.

I bet though, that there are dozens others whom I have taught who have gotten married. So really, if that’s you, please let me know. Because I love hearing it.

Jeremy-

Just got this e-mail and was reminded of what a great time I had doing your day game workshop back in August.  What your former client says in this e-mail about his grandmother being able to approve of your methods is spot-on.

There are three specific things that are great about your workshop.  First, it creates a space where a good guy can feel that he has permission to experiment and to practice skills that don’t get better if you don’t try.  The biggest hurdle to learning these things is getting out there and starting so that you know what works and what doesn’t, and so that you can develop your own style and strengths.  Just by creating an environment where any guy, no matter how clueless, can feel comfortable opening up to these situations, you set people up for success.

The other thing your workshop does– and this might be specific to New Yorkers– is helps guys get over the oddness of giving sincere compliments early on in a conversation and in knowing someone.  I was strongly reminded of an article from Esquire a few years ago (http://www.esquire.com/features/how-to-compliment-1009) about how giving compliments is a lost art form.  It isn’t what I was expecting to get out of the program, but since August, I’ve been better at knowing how to give sincere, non-creepy compliments, both when running a set and in my regular life.  I’m actually considering deducting part of the fee for the workshop as a business expense, because it was equally good as a networking workshop.

And finally, the thing that was great about your workshop, and that I’ve also brought into my regular life as well as my dating life, is knowing how and when to close.  I was always too nervous to close, thinking that it showed my hand or made me look desperate.  After your workshop, I was leaps and bounds ahead in knowing how to close in a way that acknowledges that the person you’re talking to knows that you want something, but still seeming on top of the situation, fair, and sincere about asking for something.  I’m no longer like a 7-11 (never closes!).

One of my best friends suceeded in getting a hot, smart, totally cool wife using the Game.  He always tried to prod me into using it, but the intellectual dishonesty of the version of Game he was running grated on me… I’m a good guy.  Your system doesn’t make me feel bad about what I’m doing, and works.  It’s good to know that, with a little persistence, the world is conspiring in favor of good guys.

-Andy

 

Oh – here is something interesting, though. So I’m in the car with my roommate and his family the other night. He has an 18 year old sister and we were talking about the girl I had broken up with recently. She mentions that she has been watching Sex in the City lately and how the “dating world is scary”. I tell her it’s not that bad. Then she says this, “You know, I have this dream that someday I will be walking down the street and my soul mate will just walk up to me and tell me that I look nice, and we will hang out and then end up going out”. Or something like that. The important part is that this girl has a FANTASY of some dude day gaming her. How mind blowing is that? That right there shows why day game is so effective. And how many times have I done it? ZERO.

Yeah man, whoever you are who wrote that, get out there and start doing some approaches!

Good luck.

Jeremy

I get some awesome feedback via email after my workshops. It’s *really* nice to get all that feedback. Sometimes it’s tweets, Facebook chat messages, or sometimes it’s private emails like these.

Please, keep them all coming! My life has changed enormously over the last decade, and in particular, over the last few years of working with Love Systems.

It stirs my soul (pun fully intended) and reaffirms everything I do (especially when faced with occasional criticism from close-minded individuals or irate women – some of whom I’m able to charm and show the authenticity behind what I do to, others who forever remain closed to the nature of my work).

Here’s an email I got recently from a client from one of my Australian Day Game Workshops. FYI, Sydney is one of my favorite cities in the world (and in fact, I met an incredible girl while I was there), so it’s always a joy to do workshops there.

Jeremy

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AT LAST

Jeremy has done it!

1.

• Thank you so much for the workshop, I had a great time!
• You have taught me to expect and believe that having more quality in all areas of my life is a reality.
• The subtleties that you taught me have improved the quality of sets that I have run since the workshop – the devil is in the details!
• Not only have I been more successful since the workshop, I have been having more fun. The girls I have been interacting with seem to be responding even better – on both a sexual level and a generic social level. The latter being just as important to me as finding the girl(s) of my dreams.

2.

• Since the workshop, I have been practicing at every opportunity: on the way home from meetings; at my local coffee shop in Melbourne; at a conference; at lunch with some mates; on the way to the airport; at the airport; on the plane; at the bus stop … this list will keep growing.
• So here is the brief story. Of all the sets I have run this has been the most rewarding: I caught the bus to the shops after work today – I stepped off the bus and there she was, walking towards me. Legs up to her armpits, stylishly dressed, beautiful blonde hair that fell gracefully across her face. I progressed through each of the models of the LS triad system as far as I could. I used everything I had learnt, from more sexualisation to cold reading. After the first 5 minutes I was emotionally intoxicated – she ticked all my boxes from looks and physique to poise and intelligence. Unfortunately, it turned out she had a boyfriend (statistically speaking only 16% of the sets I have run since last Friday have been single – I must have a thing for beautiful women who are spoken for). So I only progressed for the next 5 minutes to add to my ‘library of girl knokwledge.’ The reason I am relating this story to you is because I turned her day around completely - she had had a shit day at the office and had just purchased some wine so that she could drink her sorrows away. After our interaction she was positively beaming - self confidence was oozing out of every pore of her body! I had recharged her emotional ‘elephant’ so much that she discarded her recently purchased red wine then and there (such a waste, but the next homeless person to rummage through that bin will have a pleasant surprise!) So, while this was not a successful interaction from a dating point of view, I was so happy that I could bring so much joy to this beautiful young lady. You probably have experienced hundreds of situations like this, but this one will resonate with me foreever – the day that her sorrow was assasinated by an aspiring pick up artist.

And now I shall conclude (at last!) as I began …

Jeremy has done it!

AT LAST!

Retzev – full review of the workshop here

Before the weekend, I thought I knew myself pretty well. Then I met Fader. He knew more about me than I knew myself. I had never met someone with such a deep understanding of astrology, body language, learning styles, teaching methods, comprehension, self-improvement, goal setting, human psychology and dating science. Fader pierced my reality in a way that I had never experienced before. He didn’t sugarcoat anything for me during the weekend and I’m thankful for that. In particular, I learned a lot about frame control, bait-hook-reel-release/rapport, attraction spikes, hoops, social intelligence and beliefs.

After seminar, the bubble I had created for myself had popped and I felt a new sense of reality. I had taken the red pill and there was no going back. I was beginning to understand what it was going to take to achieve success in my life. “The true self is always coming through”, he said to me. Putting aside all the lines and theory, I learned that meeting women and having success in life is about being a man who is a master of his own reality. “It isn’t what happens to us that affects our behavior. Its our interpretation that affects us”, he said.

At night, we met up at a bar in NYC. I want to become a Love Systems instructor so Fader brought out Sterling (formerly LA2NY) and his buddy Alex. Being around this guy was one of my favorite parts of the bootcamp.

Sterling : You helped me tweak my vibe during approaches and taught me “Eye of the Tiger”. You have a big heart, man. Thanks for all of the 1-on-1 time… you changed my life going forward.

Alex : You taught me the importance of being louder and having the best time in your own space. At the bar, most guys are looking around for external stimuli to make their night fun and girls can feel that. When you can genuinely have the best time with your friends (loud, laughing, dancing, etc) and stop caring what others think about you, approaching becomes fun and everyone in the social environment is drawn to you.

Fader : Putting into words the impact that you have had on me is nearly impossible. You opened the door for me, man. Thank you for the change you’ve inspired in me. This community is about giving men the tools to become their best self but it takes courage to take off the blinders and truly look in the mirror. Thank you for all of the life lessons.

On the journey to accomplish all of our greatest goals, the question we are constantly asked every moment of everyday is… “How bad do you want it???”

Chance

First of all I would like to say yes you were right when you said your seminars are life changing.  I found out on the second day of the seminar when you pointed out a girl at which I then approached and then went on an instant date and left the seminar early. After talking and walking around we went to a restaurant close to my hotel after the meal we went to the lobby of the hotel then eventually up to my room at 11pm. I then walked her to the bus the next morning needless to say that sleeping with a woman on the same day you meet her is possible. (Even though she doesn’t/didn’t drink alcohol)

I feel that what also helped was having a completely free day/night and perfect logistics (restaurant opposite the hotel where I was staying) I still remain in contact with her and she is keen to catch up again.

Now back in my home town of Adelaide, South Australia continuing my day game I found the women here extremely friendly in comparison to Sydney. I am now seeing four women in Adelaide two of which I have been seeing before your seminar and two from day game.

But over the last few years, I’ve seen the empires these guys have built – not just in dating, their love and sex lives, but in business and personal relationships too.

The Social Circle Mastery seminar is no longer being taught live, but these DVDs make those learnings available to everyone. Looking to meet higher quality woman, perhaps those with more interests in common with you? Or those that don’t frequent nightclubs (and those that aren’t even open to meeting a stranger on the street; yes, I know, as much as it pains me to say, those women exist). Or you just wanna make more friends, get ahead in your career, and be more popular?

If you tick any of those boxes, this is the product for you. Comes with the Jeremy Soul stamp of approval and my highest recommendation.

Enjoy.

Before Love Systems, I was hugely introverted. I knew I had to take action to get my dating life under control. I took massive action! I would approach 40 – 50 times every weekend in the streets of London. I would have success and failure, but I knew that failure put me one step closer to greatness. This is one of the biggest mistakes I see among men. They treat rejection with such importance and they give up because it is too hard. One of the things that men need to realise is that failure isn’t rejection. Failure is not taking action.

While I’m on the topic of rejection, you should always mine the gold from every interaction. If a set goes badly, ask yourself, why? Every interaction, successful or not can be used as a learning opportunity. Be sure to always mine the gold!

Anyway, back to my story of how I got here. I would approach and practice my skill set as often as I could. There is no substitute for hard work and you have to put in the hours to get good. As you guys know, I LOVE reading. If you want to know read about the importance of practice, I recommend Malcolm Gladwell’s book “Outliers.”

Practicing is important, no doubt. What you might not hear that often is that it is tough! I had a job, friends and family and also had to fit in time to practice. Then when I did make time, I might then get rejected and I though “oh boy.” But I persisted, another reason why I am here where I am today. This hard period is what you might have heard me refer to as the dip. The dip is normal and you should expect it and recognize that it will pass! Persist!

Now I’ve put in the hard work and come out the other side, I can look back with pride over my accomplishments. The accomplishments of becoming the man I want to be, helping others and making women happy all over the world. Then there are the concrete accomplishments of my work within the community, such as

• No. 8 in the word 2009 (link)
• No. 5 in the world 2010 (link)
• No. 1  instructor at Love Systems in 2008 and No. 2 in 2009 (links)

Check out those links and you’ll learn more about me and how I became good. If you’ve any questions, get in touch with me via email or my twitter account.

This is a picture of one of my clients on my last New York workshop. I love this dude; he really impressed me with his go-getter attitude. Case in point (and bear in mind this guy doesn’t have that much experience cold approaching women, let alone doing it in the daytime), I saw this beautiful, tall, slightly intimidating-looking girl walked past, and I looked at him and said, “Go.”

The result? Well, he didn’t end up dating her or anything, but he DID have an awesome 10-minute conversation with her, while she laughed, smiled, and generally looked very flattered and impressed.

Moreover, and I’m forever telling my clients this, it’s not about the result of any one particular interaction that’s important, it’s not about any one woman you meet or any one approach you do, it’s about YOU strengthening yourself, having interesting life experiences, and becoming the best person you can be.

So even though the client didn’t end up dating this girl, after getting the kind of reaction he got from this gorgeous and intimidatingly tall woman, he was on cloud 9 for the rest of the day. Plus, he now knows that her being good-looking and tall doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have a shot. Reality changed, check. Thank you very much

Client approaching a tall, beautiful girl