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Becoming a World-Ranked Pick Up Artist & Dating Coach

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Recently I was voted one of the best pick up artists in the world by TSB Magazine. I wasn’t even aware I was on this list until someone pointed it out to me! I work so hard helping guys meet and attract the women of their dreams that I forget about these lists. However making it on there made me think about my Journey to where I am today and how I got here.

Before Love Systems, I was hugely introverted. I knew I had to take action to get my dating life under control. I took massive action! I would approach 40 – 50 times every weekend in the streets of London. I would have success and failure, but I knew that failure put me one step closer to greatness. This is one of the biggest mistakes I see among men. They treat rejection with such importance and they give up because it is too hard. One of the things that men need to realise is that failure isn’t rejection. Failure is not taking action.

While I’m on the topic of rejection, you should always mine the gold from every interaction. If a set goes badly, ask yourself, why? Every interaction, successful or not can be used as a learning opportunity. Be sure to always mine the gold!

Anyway, back to my story of how I got here. I would approach and practice my skill set as often as I could. There is no substitute for hard work and you have to put in the hours to get good. As you guys know, I LOVE reading. If you want to know read about the importance of practice, I recommend Malcolm Gladwell’s book “Outliers.”

Practicing is important, no doubt. What you might not hear that often is that it is tough! I had a job, friends and family and also had to fit in time to practice. Then when I did make time, I might then get rejected and I though “oh boy.” But I persisted, another reason why I am here where I am today. This hard period is what you might have heard me refer to as the dip. The dip is normal and you should expect it and recognize that it will pass! Persist!

Now I’ve put in the hard work and come out the other side, I can look back with pride over my accomplishments. The accomplishments of becoming the man I want to be, helping others and making women happy all over the world. Then there are the concrete accomplishments of my work within the community, such as

  • No. 8 in the word 2009 (link)
  • No. 5 in the world 2010 (link)
  • No. 1  instructor at Love Systems in 2008 and No. 2 in 2009 (links)

Check out those links and you’ll learn more about me and how I became good. If you’ve any questions, get in touch with me via email or my twitter account.