Update for Lovesystems Superconference 2009 from Mr M…

Exciting News For Those Of You In or Coming To Las Vegas…

Here’s a special treat for a few members of The Attraction Forums who either live in Las Vegas or are coming to the Super Conference…

You probably already know that the Rockstars from Project Rockstar will be at the Super Conference. However, if you have been following Project Rockstar, you will know that some of the world’ s TOP businessmen and wealth-creation masterminds have gotten involved in training the Rockstars to achieve HUGE success in business and wealth. We have had millionaires and billionaires come in and talk to the Rockstars (and we are only a week into Project Rockstar) and reveal their secrets.

In Vegas, the Rockstars have been given a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to learn from the “Masters Of Influence” Kane Minkus & Jeff Slayter (of Worlds Hidden Masters fame). Kane Minkus & Jeff Slayter are two of the world’s most sought-after mentors to entrepreneurs, business owners and the rich and powerful. Jeff & Kane once attended a bootcamp with Love Systems. It changed their lives and they wanted to give back to the community. Luckily for us, they chose Project Rockstar as the forum to do so!

The two business extraordinaries will be sharing their business, wealth and entrepreneurship secrets with the Rockstars and instructors in Las Vegas, just before the Love Systems Super Conference kicks off.

The talk will be held in the CELEBRITY SUITE (yes, you heard it right – the top room in the Hard Rock Cafe – of Jay Z, Fergie etc fame) of the Hard Rock Hotel from 7pm on Wednesday the 7th of October (this is the Wednesday just before Super Conference begins). The Celebrity Suite is a big room (capacity of 100 people, believe it or not) and super exclusive.

A limited number of guys from the forum who reply to this thread will have the chance to come and experience the talk with us.

Not only will it be a mind blowing, potentially life changing, talk which is worth it’s weight in gold, but it would also be a great chance for the Rockstars and some of the instructors to meet some of you ahead of the Super Conference…

Here is a little more about Kane and Jeff and the talk that they will be giving:

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Here’s some tips from my sessions at Super Conference 2009.

What are you going to talk about at the Love Systems Super Conference 2009?

I’ll be talking on two things: Day Game and Sexual Framing. Day Game will focus on why you should meet women in the daytime and how to approach them in the best possible way. Day Game is still my specialty. I’ve met most of my girlfriends in the daytime and it’s something I still love doing.

Sexual Framing is going to focus on how to embrace and demonstrate your male sexuality, specific physical progression techniques, and strategies for getting more adventurous in the bedroom with a woman (whether it’s in a relationship or the first time you meet her). I’m really into sexually open-minded girls and like to push the boundaries, so this is a topic that’s really close to my heart.

Could you give some tips for overcoming sexual anxiety?

There’s no substitute for taking action. It really is nerve wracking to try to kiss a woman, ask her to come home with you, or try to take her clothes off the first time. The only way you ever get comfortable doing these things is to try them a bunch of times – so that’s what you need to do!

Escalation anxiety is just as bad as approach anxiety for most guys. It can be really useful to set yourself process-oriented goals (rather than result-oriented goals), e.g. “I am going to ask every woman I go on a date with this month to come home with me,” instead of “I’m going to take home every woman I go on a date with this month.”

If you execute the correct process many times, the results will come naturally.

You’re recognized as one of the best day game expert for awhile now. What are some common problems you see with students trying to learn day game? What do you tell them to fix that?

One of the most common issues is not showing any value to the woman within the first couple of minutes.
Guys will approach a girl, stutter their words, fail to smile, and then proceed to ask her a hundred questions without making any statements about themselves. None of this helps to generate her attraction towards them.

Make sure you try to look confident: stand tall, don’t slouch, know exactly what you’re going to say and articulate it clearly. Wait for her response before you continue – it’s very unattractive to keep rambling endlessly without purpose.

Then, ask a couple of questions to find out about her, and use that information to relate your own life to hers and show that you have interesting things going on in your life.

We all have a few “Mastery Topics” that we know a lot about (for example, some of mine are traveling, dating, dancing and reading). If you can steer the conversation towards those topics, she’ll see that you’re a really interesting person and become attracted to you.

See you in Vegas.

Jeremy Soul.

Steve Jobs once spoke at Stanford University about connecting the dots. He said that sometimes the smallest of events, even those which we consider insignificant at the time, can eventually have huge impact on our lives.

I can trace back where I am now, which is a place I consider to be the happiest I’ve ever been, to a series of such events. Looking back, each of these dots was critical in making me the man I am today.

Starlight was one of last year’s Project Rockstar candidates. We got along so well that I introduced him to Eskay, a serial entrepreneur and client I had trained in Day Game several weeks prior to Rockstar.

Eskay and Starlight disc overed common ideology in love, sex, romance and business. They got along so well that, together with Mr M, they took an infamous trip to Shanghai to party with some of China’s most influential businessmen and most beautiful women.

I was on tour in the USA at the time. On my return, Eskay introduced me to the founders of Spotify, the application currently changing the face of the music industry. He invited me to their launch party in Stockholm and gave me a couple of extra invites.

I invited Rokker, our Swedish based instructor and an old friend of his, Maximilian. The party was legendary. A few months later, I found out Maximilian had a spare room to rent in Stockholm. I decided to come visit and see what it would be like to live here.

Within a couple of days, I was in love. This was my favourite city in the world and I decided to call it my new home. The dots had connected.

Good luck to all of this year’s Rockstars. Work hard, be respectful, and remember this moment a few years from now when you are living the dreams you have right now. I’ll see you gentlemen in Stockholm.

Jeremy Soul

ANNOUNCING

THE ROCKSTARS FOR 2009

Go to Project Rockstar Blog for the official announcement, story, great game articles to give you ROCKSTAR abilities with women and to learn EXACTLY what the Rockstars will learn as they post about their adventures:

Project Rockstar

The wait is over.

Five of the six Rockstars have been chosen.

The sixth will be announced VERY soon on the Project Rockstar Blog.

These five men have been selected from hundreds of applicants for their integrity, openness, enthusiasm, potential and passion. Amongst them is the deputy head of the Canadian Green Party, a once game-less and near penniless student, an Indian entrepreneur who is behind a famous UK clothing label, a French life enthusiast and an Australian traveller.

These men come from many walks of life and are coming together to achieve their Supernova through Project Rockstar. Congratulations to all these guys – they deserve to be here.

Below is the list of Rockstars, with introductory videos, pictures and short bio’s. To learn more about the Rockstars (and to learn EXACTLY what the Rockstars will be learning in the greatest game course on the planet through their mandatory daily posts once Rockstar begins) go to Mr M’s Blog – Project Rockstar.

CLAUDE GENEST (Canada)

Claude Genest, at 46, is the oldest Rockstar and hopes his enthusiasm will compensate his energy levels!

Claude brings to Project Rockstar a long history of traditional, failed, relationships and is sufficiently disillusioned with the state of affairs between men and women to cast aside his preconceptions and receive the combined wisdom of the world’s greatest connoisseurs in the realms of attraction, seduction and relationship management.

He is committed to thoroughly and completely enjoying the process of finding himself one great woman to settle down with and confesses to not being in any hurry to do so.

ALEXANDRE FOURNEL (France)

Alexandre Fournel was born and raised in Toulouse (France) with the belief that innovation and differentiation from the crowd was something to repress. He had nonetheless never coped with that mindset, and had developed a taste for innovation and risk-taking. People would refer to him as an ‘easy-going dude’ and always passionate about something new. If you had a talk with Alex, you would certainly hear him say things like: “Be strong to be useful”, “Ideas are only multipliers of execution. Don’t talk, act !” and “I’m so awesome !” He is now in his mid-twenties, and ready to step up his life to go supernova.

AARON PANASBODI (Australia)

Aaron is a 20-something Asian Australian. Growing up in cosmopolitan Sydney and having lived in Asia, rapid change and growth have always been constants in his life. A combination of hard work and opportune timing lead Aaron to find himself studying and then living in the US, where he is currently building a fast-growing performance marketing company. He is currently living a 4 hour work week lifestyle and credits a lot of his business success to the relationships he has managed to cultivate through what he has learnt about social dynamics through Social Circle Mastery and the Community. The past couple of years has Aaron seen his success with women begin to take off, and with Project Rockstar he is committed to advancing everything in his life to an entirely new level.

For the official story behind and during Project Rockstar, check out Mr M’s Project Rockstar Blog .

Braddock just wrote an article on how to open mixed sets.  Most guys avoid opening mixed groups because it seems like it would be extremely difficult.  Although it seems scary, it’s really quite easy if you follow the steps in this article.

One of the best things about mixed sets is that the girls in these groups rarely get talked to all night because most guys in the bar are to scared to open them.  These are some of the best sets in the room if you know how to handle it.

Check out Braddock’s article:  Dating Coach Braddock on: How To Open Mixed Groups

See ya,

Soul

I am going to disagree with conventional wisdom on Day Game here and say that I am against instant dates. An instant date is where you go for a coffee or some kind of mini-date with a woman immediately after having met her in the daytime.

Traditionally, a lot of guys that practice Day Game advocate going on instant dates with women. It’s said that they progress the interaction, build comfort and reduce flakiness.

Indeed, I used to be one of the guys that advocated insta-dating girls. But everything evolves and over time I’ve discovered instant dates to be less efficient than setting up dates for later on, preferably in the evening that night or if not, an evening within the next few days.

When you meet a woman during the day time, chances are you won’t be able to get physically intimate with her until nightfall. Part of this is down to simple logistics: she is most likely in the middle of errands, on her break from work, or in between meetings. You may well be busy too. For most people, the evening is when they have the majority of their downtime, when it’s likely they’d be able to spend a couple of hours on a date or getting intimate with you.

Part of this is down to the psychology of sex. People associate nightfall with intimacy. Therefore if you are going to spend time with a woman with the possibility of sleeping with her, you should arrange for that time to be in the evening.

The final reason is that women like the element of mystery, the feeling of not knowing exactly what is going to happen. If you spend a couple of hours with a woman in the afternoon, taking a long walk though the park or chatting over coffee for a couple of hours, a lot of that mystery is gone. Suddenly, she knows a lot about you and you’ve become that “really interesting guy she spent an afternoon chatting with” instead of the guy she met up with in the evening and went home with.

Of course there are always going to be exceptions to this. It certainly is possible to meet a woman in the middle of the afternoon and get her home before it’s nightfall. It’s also possible to go on instant dates that last until nightfall and then take the woman home. But these are exceptions rather than the rule.

In most cases, your best bet for securing a solid date and for not wasting your time is to build a connection based on Attraction and Qualification (see the Love Systems Triad if you don’t know what these are) for about 5 minutes and then set up a date for an evening sometime soon (ideally that night).

I don’t think instant dates should never be tried. They’re certainly good for showing you what’s possible: that you can go on a random date with a woman you’ve just met in the middle of the day. But instant dates should be a feather in your cap rather than the arrows in your quiver.

This is probably going to be a controversial post and I’m sure there will be those that disagree with me. I think continual experimentation is important to develop any skill, so I invite you to experiment: if you have never tried instant dates, try going on a few, and if you usually do a lot of them, try avoiding them completely. See what happens.

Credit to the Asian Rake for encouraging me to write this article. I recently met him in Singapore and after talking about day game, it became clear that we shared some similar views. David – I hope to see you next time I am in Singapore.

Jeremy Soul