As the Day Game Workshop program gets more and more popular, I find myself travelling to places further and further away from my current home of the UK. I did Toronto recently in Canada, and now I’m off to Australia to show the ozzies how to charm women on the streets of Sydney.

Here’s some great footage of Savoy, our fearless leader teaching an Australian chap about women and how to attract them. Savoy is not only my boss, but someone I’ve personally learnt a lot from.

I recently got hold of a copy of his awesome relationship management DVDs and found myself listening in rapt attention as he talked about the fidelity model and why women cheat. It’s something that’s happened to me a couple of times in the past, and now I understand why! Cheers Nick.

I’ll see those of you who h ave signed up for Sydney in about a week – there are still 1 or 2 places left for those of you who still want to sign up. I’m looking forward to some beautiful weather, but not so much the 24-hour flight…

Jeremy Soul

Which got me thinking about writing an article to remind everyone how good this book is! Seriously, if you haven’t read it, get yourself a copy now.

For me, Magic Bullets is the bible of dating. Years ago, I found another book which taught me how to be confident and funny with women. That helped, but nothing has been near as helpful as the holistic system set out in Magic Bullets.

The main point of Magic Bullets is that it gives you a comprehensive structure you can apply to any and every area of your dating life – all the way from saying hi to a woman to getting her into your bedroom and seducing her. It explains the different stages you need to go through in an interaction with a woman, what they are and why you need them. It will give you a very detailed knowledge of how female psychology works. To illustrate, the book has plenty of examples on how to execute each of the steps in real life and explains the techniques you can employ such as handling mixed groups of men and women, winging, disqualification, compliance, story-telling, what to do on dates and physical escalation.

These are my personal favourite bits of the book (bear in mind this is after getting GOOD at dating for about three years, so these things were refreshing to read even for me):

• Relationship Management section. Gives a great overview of a much neglected area of dating among pick up artists.
• Workplace Romance examples. Detailed blow-by-blow examples of how to make an office hook up work.
• Storytelling chapter. The number one thing most guys need to work on is their ability to talk more charismatically. This chapter teaches you that.

Magic Bullets has evolved way beyond Mystery’s original sequential M3 model of seduction. Terms like A3, C2 and X8 are outdated. Whenever I hear clients using this stuff, I have to ask them, “What are you talking about?” Everything we teach our clients is designed to be as simple and as easy to use as possible. If you go to a Love Systems bootcamp, you won’t hear unnecessary jargon unless it’s something that actually helps you to date women. Anything else is just mental masturbation.

We’re constantly evolving here at Love Systems:  Magic Bullets updates that customers automatically get reflect that. Between Mr M and Braddock with Social Circle Mastery and Inner Game, The Don with Strippers and Hired Guns, and my own Day Game stuff, there’s very little at Love Systems that we’re not figuring out. We’re working to give you guys the best possible dating lives you can have – that means constantly developing new ideas and testing them out.

When I browse through The Attraction Forums, I look at most of the queries and think, “This can be dealt with if that guy just read Magic Bullets.” But I know, I know, people are lazy. Well, no one else is gonna do the hard work for you in life! Your happiness and success is your responsibility alone.

Miaddict, all-powerful moderator and good friend of mine wrote a great post about getting the right information on the attraction forums here. The reason why most instructors hang out on the Lounge (exclusively for bootcamp alumini) is because we get to answer and post on interesting, cool stuff that ISN’T already covered in Magic Bullets.

Not surprisingly, the book is the foundation of everything I and other instructors teach at Love Systems. If you want to see a preview, you can read sample chapters of the book before you buy. And as with all Love Systems products, a full refund policy applies, so there’s literally no risk.

It’s important to remember though that reading Magic Bullets doesn’t mean you will never need to read anything else. For example, the vault of Classic Writings on The Attraction Forums, the Routines Manual and my upcoming Daytime Dating book (watch this space!) all give more specialist information on relevant topics. But NONE of this stuff will help you as much as if you had the right foundations in the first place, which is what Magic Bullets gives you. Day Game Workshop clients who have read Magic Bullets or taken a bootcamp inevitably perform better and get more out of it than those who haven’t.

Finally, don’t take anything you learn as gospel (even from this blog!). You need put yourself out there, apply your knowledge and see how it plays out. We are all individuals and will have different styles of interacting with people. So put your individual stamp on what you do, keep tweaking, experimenting and testing out new techniques. The fun part comes when you stop reading and finding out what you enjoy and what works for you.

Jeremy Soul

Toronto is awesome for daytime dating

Today I want to share with you guys an awesome email exchange I had with a recent client from the Day Game Workshop I just ran in Toronto, Canada. I love staying in touch with clients, especially when I hear how hard they’ve been working on themselves and their dating lives.

Ravi (aka Stormboy on The Attraction Forums) was a great client – he was genuine, respectful of people, down to earth and acted when needed to act. I know he was super nervous taking the workshop with me and the thought of doing daytime approaches on random women petrified him. But when I asked him to do something, he went and did it, regardless of what emotions he felt inside. The mark of a successful man: he was willing to take action when he needed to. Check out the full day game review here.

I completely relate to where Ravi is right now. I remember having all these feelings a few years ago. I love the work I do because it allows people the make the same journey that I have – hopefully a lot faster and learning even more along the way than I did. Here’s the original email he sent me (copied with his permission) and my response.

Hey Jeremy!

I just had to email you and tell you about the scariest approach I ever did! Man all I did was approach the girl. I went to the food court to get lunch and I saw this really pretty girl having lunch with another girl and seven other guys! They looked like co-workers because they wore the same uniform.

One of my female co-workers was with me and I told her I am going to approach that girl! She was like no… she thought I was joking. When my co-worker realised I was serious she started feeling nervous herself!

Man, I was scared shitless. Heart thumping and hands shaking and knowing there was no turning back, I slowly approached their table and looked at her with passion and said with a very passionate voice, “Excuse me, I know this awkward of me, but my god, I have to tell you that you are absolutely lovely.”

I am not joking but her eyes widened and her face lit up and everyone on the table stopped eating and went silent. I was lost for words. I then introduced myself and shook her hand… and left.

I know I did not transition or continue the conversation because I was shaking like hell, but the fact I did an approach that was so scary and made her day like that was unbelievable. I felt totally satisfied that I had the balls to do an approach like that: all her co-workers were shocked!

That was like 30 minutes ago and I am still shaking. I couldn’t even eat lunch properly! But I know with time and practice I can take myself far.

My female co-worker cannot stop speaking about it and told another female worker about it. They are just amazed and surprised that there are men who can actually do this. They said in their wildest dreams this has never happened to them.

But all thanks to you. I know you are busy but I just had to take the time to tell you this! Thank you for the knowledge that made this possible!

Ravi

Ravi,

It makes me really proud to read your email. I’m so glad you did that approach. It doesn’t matter that you didn’t follow up or whatever: you had the stones to do what most men could never do. Well done.

Let me tell you a similar thing that happened to me. A couple of years ago, I was really good when I was out specifically to practice daytime dating, but I couldn’t do it spontaneously, e.g. on my lunch break. Then one lunchtime at work I saw this beautiful Chinese girl on the other side of the street.

I swallowed my pride and ran over to her, opened her and a few minutes later was walking away with her phone number. I remember being so nervous about it that I was literally shaking when I got back to work. It was a scary, but exhilarating feeling.

Things like that don’t scare me nearly as much these days. Now, changing my life, falling in love, meeting a kind of woman I’ve never met before etc. are things that thrill me. Remember that nervousness is almost an identical feeling to excitement! Treasure that feeling my man.

You are right to believe in yourself. I will tell you from the perspective of someone who NEVER thought he would ever get a decent girlfriend, let alone sleep with or love as many amazing women as I have: if you continue to work hard, years from now you will have to pinch yourself when you realise that your dreams of love, sex and romance have come true.

Keep up the good work brother.

Jeremy Soul

Norweigan women are wonderful

Kisser, an awesome Love Systems instructor and good friend of mine based in Los Angeles, recently did a teleseminar with me and the boys from Enlightenment Dating.

You can download it here: Soul and Kisser Teleseminar on Day Game

We cover some of the basics of daytime dating and talk a lot about good and bad ways to show value and build rapport when you’re talking to women you meet in the daytime. There are countless gems in it for fans of day game enthusiasts.

Oh, and Kisser tells a hilarious story where he almost had sex with a celebrity, but then suggested they “take things slow” as he thought it was the right thing to do. Check out what happened…

General update on me: I am busy touring the world still doing Day Game Workshops. Have Toronto coming up this weekend 6-9 March and then Oslo 20-23 March. Look forward to meeting those that have signed up already.

I’m also working like crazy on the Daytime Dating ebook. This is going to a beast of a book and I can’t wait ’til it comes out! Watch this space.

Jeremy